Starting at age three, I've asked Korri 20 questions around the time of her birthday. I chose NOT to direct or influence her initial answers. Here are her responses:
20 questions: answered by Korrigan on 2/7/2018
1. What is your favorite color? Blue, light
2. What is your favorite toy? Barbies
3. What is your favorite fruit? Apples and oranges
4. What is your favorite TV show/movie? Ever After High/Boss Baby
5. What is your favorite thing to eat for lunch? Popcorn chicken at school, with honey mustard sauce
6. What is your favorite outfit/thing to wear? Something pretty but not itchy, like a dress
7. What is your favorite game? Mastermind
8. What is your favorite snack? Apples and oranges and bubble gum
9. What is your favorite animal? horse
10. What is your favorite song? Twinkle twinkle little star, then she thought about it and said The Greatest by Sia (or Kids Bop)
11. What is your favorite book? Boxcar Children
12. Who is your best friend? Lilly in Mrs. Myhre's class
13. What is your favorite cereal? Fruit Loops
14. What is your favorite thing to do outside? Building a snowman and playing in the leaves
15. What is your favorite drink? Pink lemonade, sprite and root-beer
16. What is your favorite holiday? Christmas, because you get to celebrate Jesus’ birthday
17. What do you like to take to bed with you at night? I don’t sleep with anything, well, my blanket
18. What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? Pancakes (with some prodding by me)
19. If you could pick anything, what you would eat for dinner on your birthday? Malts and pizza
20. What do you want to be when you grow up? A mommy
Bonus Questions:
21. What is your favorite sport to play? Gymnastics (also likes basketball and dance)
22. What is your best/least favorite part of school? Best: art Least: math
Wow, this year was VERY difficult to do these with Korri. She was all attitude, sass and even disrespect. I don’t get it. She had a VERY hard time with just stating her "favorite" but wanted to list everything/everybody she likes. Argh. But regardless, we eventually got through it.
My thoughts/feedback on some of her answers:
My thoughts/feedback on some of her answers:
1. What is your favorite color? Blue, light: she just said "blue" but I asked light or dark, because I knew she specifically likes light blue.
3. What is your favorite fruit? Apples and oranges: she was very decisive about this one and her answer surprised me. She is a fruit-ie (like a foodie but with fruit!) and I would have picked bananas.
4. What is your favorite TV show/movie? Ever After High/Boss Baby: she really couldn't come up with a TV Show but eventually "narrowed" it down to Sofia the First and Ever After High. I honestly think those were the only two she could think of since she hasn't watched Sofia in what seems like years and she just happened to watch Ever After High this morning. As far as movie, I don't think Boss Baby is her favorite, but Mac watches it all the time, so I think it was the first one she could think of.
7. What is your favorite game? Mastermind: again, I was surprised, but let me be clear, she likes to be the code MAKER in Mastermind NOT the code BREAKER! LOL
8. What is your favorite snack? Apples and oranges and bubble gum: She does like these three thing but I asked about ice cream and she agreed, that was probably her favorite.
11. What is your favorite book? Boxcar Children: awww...a girl after my own heart. We just read the first book, so it is top of mind for her, but she did really enjoy it and it is the perfect reading level/writing style for her right now.
12. Who is your best friend? Lilly in Mrs. Myhre's class: this is where the wheels fell off the wagon. She started listing all of her friends and I was like, that isn't the point! Who is the ONE person you'd be saddest to never see again. And then she said our old neighbor Max, who moved away almost two years ago! NOT MY POINT! I'm sure Lilly is a very nice girl but she has NEVER even mentioned her before this morning. If you asked me, I'd say Aubrey is her actual best friend, BUT they had a tiff at recess the other day, and I think she refused to name her because of it. STUBBORN!! (see, she IS just like me;)
15. What is your favorite drink? Pink lemonade, sprite and root-beer: again, the concept of "favorite" eluded her and she refused to narrow it down. So there you have it. Her list of EVERYTHING she drinks. LOL
17. What do you like to take to bed with you at night? I don’t sleep with anything, well, my blanket: she means the blanket on top of her, she doesn't have a "lovey."
18. What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? Pancakes (with some prodding by me): she first said "fruit loops" again but honestly, she NEVER eats them. So I asked her what she'd eat if she could eat anything and I started naming every breakfast thing I could think of. That is when she said pancakes (she likes skinny pancakes but we haven't had them in FOREVER).
19. If you could pick anything, what you would eat for dinner on your birthday? Malts and pizza: said without a moments hesitation. Look back at her answer from last year! I guess we'd better get her a malt next year on her birthday :)
20. What do you want to be when you grow up? A mommy: again, look at her response from last year. The girl is consistent, if nothing else!
21. What is your favorite sport to play? Gymnastics (also likes basketball and dance): at first she listed all three and refused to name just one. Then I asked her if she could only do ONE of these three, which one would she pick.
22. What is your best/least favorite part of school? Best: art Least: math: it makes me sad that math is her least favorite. But she's really good at it, so I hope she keeps on keeping on! After all, she's daddy Princess of Math and Science :)
Here is the last picture before she turned 7, before getting on the bus on Jan 30th (because she was born at 10:39am):
Man, I love this girl fiercely, but she challenges me constantly. I wish I had more...I don't know..."something" that she needs because I'm not giving it to her. If the last year has been a glimpse into what the teen years will be like, I'm terrified. I just want to support and love her and I want her to be happy and well adjusted, which she is most of the time. She just FEELS so strongly about EVERYTHING. I just try to give her inter- and intra- personal skills that will help her through all these hills and valleys.
"If I could give my daughter 3 things, it would be the confidence to always know her self worth, the strength to chase her dreams and the ability to know how truly, deeply loved she is." -Author Unknown
Part of me, if I'm being honest, wants to "break" her so she conforms and listens and is respectful. But the thought of that actually happening makes me sad because that would be taking away part of what makes her KORRI. No, I don't want to break her, but maybe taming her a little wouldn't be bad.
If you are curious as to what her responses were last year, click here to link to that post!
Here's a family picture (courtesy of Jessica Hislop) from seven years ago today:





















































