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Nearly half a million babies (1 in 10) are born premature in the US each year which is higher than that of most other developed nations. This is the journeys of our first born son, Finnegan, who was born 14 weeks early and weighed only 1 pound 15 ounces at birth. Of our daugher, Korrigan, who was born a healthy 7 pounds, 7 ounces at 37 weeks. And of our second son, MacKeegan, who was also born at 37 weeks at a whopping 8 pounds, 13 ounces. Our continued adventures reminds us daily how good God is.

Monday, September 7

Twenty Questions - Mac 6

Twenty Questions - Mac 6

Starting at age three, I've asked Mac 20 questions around the time of his birthday. I chose NOT to direct or influence his initial answers. Here are his responses:


20 questions: answered by MacKeegan on 9/7/2020


1. What is your favorite color? Blue, no, actually bright orange and green

2. What is your favorite toy? Legos

3. What is your favorite fruit? Plums

4. What is your favorite TV show, YouTube channel and movie? TV show=Just Add Magic, YouTube=Unspeakable, Movie=Cars 3 and Frozen 2 (with mommy’s help)

5. What is your favorite thing to eat for lunch? Popcorn shrimp

6. What is your favorite outfit/thing to wear? Shorts

7. What is your favorite game/video game? game=Uno Attack, Sesame Street Uno, Minecraft Uno; Video Game=Minecraft

8. What is your favorite snack? XXTra Flamin’ Hot Cheetos

9. What is your favorite animal? Kitty and baby dog

10. What is your favorite song? Hamilton Soundtrack

11. What is your favorite book? Sandra Boyton books (specifically Opposites and Blue Hat, Green Hat because he can “read” them himself)

12. Who is your best friend? Ben (his cousin)

13. What is your favorite cereal? Trix

14. What is your favorite thing to do outside? Play tag, hide and seek tag and swim

15. What is your favorite drink? Orange juice and any pop

16. What is your favorite holiday? Christmas because we get lots of nice gifts

17. What do you like to take to bed with you at night? Any stuffy, but I haven’t really been doing that lately

18. What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? Peanut butter granola bars with chocolate chips

19. What do you want for dinner on your birthday? Buffalo Chicken wings

20. What do you want to be when you grow up? Bird, actually I don’t really know, or maybe work at a restaurant because you get a “ton” of money but it would be really hard work

Bonus Question:

21. What is your favorite sport to play? Karate and basketball

22. What is your best/least favorite part of school? Best=snack time, Least=everything is my favorite


First off, yes I realize we are a month and a half late. Oops! At least I remembered now, right?

Mac in a nut shell: loves anything spicy and would eat snacks all day long and asks to be on screens all day long.

My feedback on some of his answers:
2. First he said "tablet" and I told him that was technology and NOT a toy. Sheesh. He does do other things besides screens.

6. This made me laugh. This kid runs around in just shorts all the time and it is like pulling teeth getting him to put on a shirt of any kind. I thought he'd say "Under Armor" since it continues to be popular in our house, but I didn't lead him and he didn't come up with it.

9. Could there be a more vanilla answer?!?! I mean, so DOESN'T like kitties and puppies?

10. Our whole family is obsessed with Hamilton but he randomly belts out songs all the time. I love it.

11. He's REALLY interested in books and reading right now. I also loves The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein and Ralph and the Motorcycle books by Beverly Cleary.

18. He also like chocolate chip mini muffins and when I make him eggs.

22. He's REALLY excited to learn how to read and I'm SO thankful he loves school. Bring on Kindergarten.

Click here to view his responses from last year.


Mac gives us a run for our money and NEVER stops talking but at the same time is the sweetest boy. We struggle with impulse control with his body and him telling the truth. He is SO smart and carries on conversations like he's an adult. I can't wait to see what he does this year in Kindergarten.

Monday, February 10

Twenty Questions - Korri 9

Twenty Questions - Korri 9

Starting at age three, I've asked Korri 20 questions around the time of her birthday. I chose NOT to direct or influence her initial answers. Here are her responses:

20 questions: answered by Korrigan on 2/10/2020

1. What is your favorite color? teal

2. What is your favorite toy? Barbies, no American Girl Dolls!

3. What is your favorite fruit? watermelon

4. What is your favorite TV show/YouTube channel/movie? TV: Free Rein and Winks; YouTube: The LaBrant Fam and Movie: The Greatest Showman

5. What is your favorite thing to eat for lunch? Grilled Cheese with tomato soup or ketchup

6. What is your favorite outfit/thing to wear?  I like all my clothes...dresses, comfy clothes (UA), and two new boots

7. What is your favorite game? Mastermind or Apples to Apples

8. What is your favorite snack? Ice cream with no chocolate

9. What is your favorite animal? horses

10. What is your favorite song? This is Me, The Greatest Showman soundtrack

11. What is your favorite book? Ivy and Bean series

12. Who is your best friend? Lauren Cardinal, Hunter Olson and Lilly Steen

13. What is your favorite cereal? Fruity Pebbles

14. What is your favorite thing to do outside? swim

15. What is your favorite drink? peach kiddie margarita

16. What is your favorite holiday? Christmas, because you get to spend time with family and get new things AND celebrate Jesus' birthday

17. What do you like to take to bed with you at night? Trois (stuffed dino) or Crab stuffy

18. What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? Mini Cinis

19. If you could pick anything, what you would eat for dinner on your birthday? eat at Unhinged Pizza or spam

20. What do you want to be when you grow up? A mom and horse rider

Bonus Questions:

21. What is your favorite sport/activity to play? Gymnastics and Karate, no actually horse riding

22. What is your best/least favorite part of school? Best: PhyEd and reading Least: math


I think this might be the first year where we didn't get frustrated with each other when asking these questions! LOL She was thoughtful and for the most part, answered them exactly as I would have if I had taken it for her. Here are some comments.

2. She said "Barbies!" right away and I gave her a look and she said, "No, American Girl Dolls!" which in my opinion is the more "right" answer.

4. Testament to the times we live in: she didn't know what a "TV Show" was!! I said, something with episodes. Sheesh! She also didn't come up with Free Rein on her own, but once I mentioned it, she said it had to go first.

6. She REALLY struggled with this one. We came back to it and finally I suggested her new boots. She said they weren't an outfit and I said they are a thing to wear though! And she strongly agreed. She does like all her clothes though. She's my fashionista for sure.

14. She looked outside and I just said, "it can be any time of the year!" and she immediately said "Swim!" She doesn't like winter. LOL

15. Specifically at Bugambilias in Buffalo!

17. Unlike Finn, she doesn't HAVE to take anything to bed with her, but she does like to have a stuffy of some sort. Also, yes, I had to google how to spell three in French! Whatever, I took Spanish!

18. These are mini cinnamon rolls at school. Good job school for having yummy hot breakfast!

19. She mentioned spam last year too. I promise we don't eat it THAT often! Sheesh.

20. Awww! Sounds like a pretty good life to me. She specifically said NOT a horse competitor or trainer! She just wants to RIDE.

21. She didn't think horse riding was a sport, so I changed the question to say activity...but I think it is a sport!

22. I was shocked with PhyEd. I even questioned her and she said yes! Okay, then. I knew reading would be best and math would be worst..even though she is so good at math! Argh.

I've already bestowed my thoughts and feelings about Korri in the post about getting her ears pierced. That is going well, for the most part. One ear is more sore than the other and we've had tears, but hopefully we are on the way to healing at this point. She does a good job keeping them clean and moving them around.

Korri is helpful, kind, loves to be in the kitchen doing anything, loves to be involved in activities (karate, piano, ice skating, horse riding, gymnastics, religion class to name a few!). She also loves it when I'm involved with her activities, like volunteering in HER classroom or when she helps when it's my turn to facilitate Children's Liturgy at church. I cherish this because I know it won't be too long until I'm not "cool" enough to do anything with her, in public anyway.

We still work on her being respectful and opening up about things going on in her day and how she feels. She tends to either hold it all in (bad!) or not let it phase her (good!). I'm not sure which it is yet...probably a combo of the two. She's had to deal with a lot of conflict in her short 9 years and she has handled it with grace. I'm very proud of the lady she is growing into and can't wait to see the things she accomplishes.

This is the last picture before she turned 9 (in one of her "nine" shirts from Customly Yourz by Andrea Johnson!):

If you are curious as to what her responses were last year, click here to link to that post!

Monday, February 3

Nine is fine

Yesterday was the day. I'd been looking forward to it and asking about it for years. And finally, Korri decided she was ready to get her ears pierced! She said something about a month ago, which was prefect with her 9th birthday coming up. We looked at the calendar and decided we would go together on the Sunday AFTER her birthday because she had a friend come over ON her birthday and then it was her and Finn's hotel family party on Saturday, so Sunday seemed to work the best.

Side note: I LOVE that she was nine when she decided she was ready to get her ears pierced. I wasn't allowed to get mine pierced until I was 13 and I remember BEGGING (like B.E.G.G.I.N.G!) my mom to let me get mine pierced when I was nine because it was my golden birthday and I was so ready. For real. Well, I wasn't allowed to but it was a part of my heart that never fully healed. Clearly! LOL. So, now my daughter did when SHE was nine!! Oh, the things that stick with us, am I right?!?!

After a LONG week and weekend, I wasn't sure I was up for going, but I'm SO glad we did. It is a mother/daughter experience that I will never forget. Doing things like this reminds me what an amazing young lady she is.

First off, I was thinking we'd just go to Claire's, but I heard so many bad things about them, that I looked around. I found out on Saturday, that a local hair salon does them BUT they aren't open on Sunday. Then Google told me about a place called Piercing Pagoda. The best part? They have TWO technicians, so they do both ears at the same time. AND they are open on Sunday. Perfect. I called to make an appointment and they said they had two technicians scheduled from noon to 6pm on Sunday but didn't make appointments. Again, perfect.

We had two vehicles at the hotel, so the boys went in one direction (home) and the girls went in another (to the Mall of America, the closest Piercing Pagoda location). We got the MOA right after they opened, so parking was a breeze. It was too early to get her ears pierced, so we went to her favorite place to eat there: Freshens Crepes and Smoothies! She got a crepe filled with bananas, strawberries and nutella! I MAY have had a small bite and it was as magical as it sounds!


We walked around (I mean, if you can't get your 10,000 steps at MOA, where can you?!?!) for a bit. We noticed a Claire's location and she asked to go in. I let her pick out some earrings for when her ears heal. She wisely picked two cards of earrings with 8 pairs on each! LOL She wanted to get a good bang for MY buck ;)

Then the piercing place wasn't quite ready (but we did get to watch another girl get her ears pierced and thankfully she didn't freak out!), so we stopped in DSW and Korri was appalled as some of the platform tennis shoes there! I love her shoe fashion and opinions. It made me feel not so old when we agreed on ugly shoes. I needed some casual/dressy shoes but didn't find any there. I mean, they have a ton of shoes, but does anybody else have a hard time FINDING anything?!?! Oh, well. That's what website search filters are for!

When we went back, they had two technicians on staff so it was time! Korri told me on the drive there that she was nervous. I told her I would be worried about her if she WEREN'T nervous! But also, she's my tough nut, so I knew she'd be okay. Here's her virgin ears before:


We picked out earrings and she wanted ones "just like yours, mommy." Awww...she does have good (i.e. expensive) taste! Then we picked out a couple for daddy since you of course got a deal on subsequent ones if you bought one pair! I spared no expense. I got the extended "warranty" (in case there are issues), the 14k gold studs (JUST in case there's an allergic reaction!) and the rapid healing spray (which probably doesn't do anything different than the normal solution, but it made me feel better!). Whatever, you only get your ears pierced for the first time once! Don't judge me.

Before and after


And she has a smile in the after pic! She was a stoic rock star. She held my hands but didn't squeeze or anything. After, I asked if she was okay and said said, "owww?" Tough cookie. I think I was more emotional than she was! They got hot and sensitive and she kept bumping them and saying, "Oh, yeah!"

After the ears, I asked if she wanted to get our nails done and she said yes yes yes! So she got a pedicure and her first GEL manicure! I just got a fill, as I had a cut on the bottom of my foot and while I needed a pedicure, the idea of putting my foot in water and then brushing it at all, made me shutter. Oh, well.


The ladies there were very kind and helpful and were amazing with making Korri feel special. By this time, I realized I hadn't eaten lunch and was getting light headed. We went to Noodles and Company where I had lunch (shrimp zoodles, which were amazing!) and Korri had a "snack" (chicken Cesar salad!).


While we were eating, we realized we were exhausted. We made one more quick stop at Claire's (there are THREE locations at MOA! Crazy) and then we headed home.

It was a beautiful day and wonderful experience to share together. It was a coming of age for Korri and she rocked it. She is growing up so fast and is so mature in some ways and I just want to hold on to her and tell her to stop growing up! She really is great. I know we butt heads a LOT but I guess that's what kids do with their "safe" person, right? I hope I'm always a shelter for her to give her rest and comfort and that we can share in a LOT more experiences like we did yesterday. Love you so much, Baby Grill!!!!

Oh, and I think it is safe to say, we were tuckered out!! I however, didn't get a nap!


Sunday, January 19

Twenty Questions - Finn 11

Twenty Questions - Finn 11

Starting at age three, I've asked Finn 20 questions around the time of his birthday. I chose NOT to direct or influence his initial answers. Here are his responses:

20 questions: answered by Finnegan on 1/08/2020

1. What is your favorite color? Blue and green
2. What is your favorite toy? BeyBlades
3. What is your favorite fruit? Berries
4. What is your favorite TV show/YouTube channel/movie? TV Show: Pokemon; YouTube Channel: Popular MMOs; Movie: Star Wars Last Jedi
5. What is your favorite thing to eat for lunch? Home: Adult lunchables; School: pizza rounds; Restaurant: burrito
6. What is your favorite outfit/thing to wear? Under Armour
7. What is your favorite board game/card game/video game? Board Game: Monopoly Jr; Card Game: Uno Attack; Video Game: Minecraft
8. What is your favorite snack? Nutella and pretzels
9. What is your favorite animal? Arctic fox and a lion
10. What is your favorite song? RadioActive by Imagine Dragons
11. What is your favorite book? Anything by Rick Riordan
12. Who is your best friend? Ryker, Xavier, Isaiah, Paxten and Martin
13. What is your favorite cereal? Fruit Loops
14. What is your favorite thing to do outside? Play football
15. What is your favorite drink? Rootbeer
16. What is your favorite holiday? Christmas, because we get to spend time with family and get gifts from Santa
17. What do you like to take to bed with you at night? KiKi
18. What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? Skinny pancake burritos
19. If you could pick anything, what you would eat for dinner on your birthday? Ice cream, mint chocolate chip cookie dough
20. What do you want to be when you grow up? I don’t know, author, drawer and comic book illustrator

Bonus Questions:
21. What is your favorite sport/activity to play? Golf and football
22. What is your most/least favorite part of school? Best: Social Studies/History; Least: Band, it’s too hard

My two cents (for what they're worth, which isn't much! LOL):

In general, I feel like he had a hard time picking just one answer for a lot of the questions. Not sure why, but there's definitely a theme or pattern!

5. Adult lunchables are the Hillshire Farm Snacking Small Plates. If you haven't had one yet, they are pretty fabulous!

12. It used to bother me that he doesn't have one "best friend" but it doesn't bother him and really, it is probably better that way. When you list five boys as your best friend, you always have somebody to hang out with! Plus, I know three of the boys well and they are really good kids, which helps, too!

17. KiKi is his "lovey" from when he was a baby. It is a small blue blanket with a Winnie the Pooh head that rattles. I've had to buy several extra ones from China over the last 11 years. Hopefully he doesn't need any more new ones!

18. Skinny pancakes are a Thomas family tradition and are a cross between a pancake and a crepe. We just started putting bacon, egg and salsa or hot sauce inside and rolling them up and they are amazing!!!

19. Hey, the question said "anything!"

20. He ALWAYS struggles with this question. One year he said "a boat." Really?!?! I really made him stay with this one and think about it. Eventually I did start to list some professions as well as tell him things he's really good at. Eventually he came up with these. But was very adamant that a drawer is different than a comic book illustrator!

22. I would argue that his favorite part of school is ACTUALLY getting two food choices for lunch every day! Seriously, every day he comes home, tells me what the two choices were and then I guess which one he picked!! Hey, you connect with your middle schooler anyway he lets you! And for the record, Band is NOT too hard...he NEVER practices, which might make it SEEM hard.

If you are curious as to what his responses were last year, click here to link to that post!

Here is the last picture of my ten year old before he went to bed and turned 11 (at 5:25am the next morning):

And I want to thank Jim for taking it, as I was already in bed, on my way to being sick for Finn's entire birthday, which was a huge bummer for me. Finn handled it with grace and rolled with the punches. Every year instead of a big friend party, they get to pick one friend to get off the bus with them, play and then go out to dinner with us. He picked Paxten from #12 above. Also, because I was so sick, they did NOT get to go out to eat, but Jim grabbed some Pizza Hut for them, which I think they thought was a fine substitute. Jim also picked up a Dairy Queen Blizzard cake for him since, for the first time, I didn't finish a cake on time, which totally wrecked me. Again, Finn was very gracious.


For his cake this year, he picked R2D2 from Star Wars and we compromised to R2D2's head, as his whole body would have taken a LONG time (I've done it before, so I know!). Even though Finn celebrated ON his birthday, we celebrated again the next night so I could participate.


I was well enough for him to come into my room (please don't judge the dirty clothes in the background in the pictures...I was sick!!) to open his presents on his birthday right before bed. He got a BeyBlade Metal Fusion set including Beys and a new stadium (refer to question 2 above!) and new Under Armour pants (refer to question 6 above!). But the REAL birthday present was a letter from Hogwarts inviting him to go there! Which he didn't understand until Jim explained that we would be taking him to Hogwarts in Florida (The Wizarding World of Harry Potter) in Feb! He's beyond excited. Oh and the best part (for me!) is that Sasha and Sonia (Jim's cousins) are joining us!! I mean, come on!!


Eleven is going to be great. I FEEL like Finn is starting to outgrow some of his behavior issues that we struggle with (compliance, listening, over-reacting, showing remorse, etc.). He seems to really understand what respect is and even if he doesn't act that way all the time, he seems to be respectful more often than not. Oh, and now that he's 11, he can babysit Korri and Mac!! Which he has done twice (as of me typing this on 1/19 and had done a great job!). He's honestly growing up. He is rocking middle school and gets excited about projects and things going on at school. He's started identifying his emotions and expressing his feelings to us which, if you know him at all, is HUGE for him (and makes parenting him easier!). But as with every year, I'm a little sad that he IS growing up so quickly. I love all my baby birds in my nest and needing me. But I know eventually you must set them free and if you've done a good job raising them, they will fly! I know with every fiber of my being that one day (too soon for me!) Finnegan is going to fly and fly big, whatever he does in life!! (as long as it isn't "being a boat!) Love you to infinity to the infinity power, Buddy Boy!!!
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